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I’ve a List of Desirable Characteristics. Exactly why is it hard for ladies to Commit?

Reader Question:

Me: 46 years old, African-American male, expert job, home owner, good-looking, 20-year-old boy. We date outside of my race. Im in very good form.

It seems just as much as women desire a loyal relationship, they don’t wish to commit to me. I do have a “list” of desirable attributes — appealing, in a position to take care of her finances, a social or nondrinker and someone that is actually willing and capable travel and do things.

Why is it hard for ladies to commit when I provide external signs of willing to be in a loyal relationship?

-Mark (Ca)

Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Response:

Dear Mark,

Yes, unnecessary ladies are acting like guys (or the way they THINK males act) and they are staying away from devotion. Having said that, i shall show you may still find a lot more women that want a safe accessory than maybe not.

I’m wondering exactly why you may appear become attracted to women who avoid a solid connect. Could this be your choice in goals?

My personal advice should be to keep in touch with females that you will most likely not initially end up being keen on to see should you limber up in their eyes. Sometimes our failure to acquire a secure relationship relates to the anxieties of abandonment.

This basically means, we selected associates exactly who cannot get near protect us from becoming “dangerously” close and exposure abandonment.

Attempt dating the kind of person you have never, previously outdated prior to. Go-slow. And watch your emotions as you go along.

Can you be conveniently jealous, desire to manage her time or wanna secure the offer too quickly? The key is to include yourself and quell your personal concerns.

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